Archive for the ‘Therapy’ Category

7 Jul

Reauthor Your Sex Story

All sorrows can be born if you put them in a story or tell a story about them. ―Isak Dinesen Sex therapy clients have usually done their own research, mining the Internet and talking to friends in an effort to solve their problem before coming… Read More

4 Jun

The Power of the Personal

The New York Times recently published a short but hopeful essay, "Transference? I'll Take It", by Michelle Huneven about a successful  round of therapy that eventually led her to falling in love and getting married. As a relationship therapist, I often think about the relationships… Read More

23 Apr

What Therapists Wish Their Clients Knew

Before clients commit to therapy, they may want to talk to the clinician prior to coming in to ask a few questions. They may ask, "What kind of therapy do you do?", "Have you dealt with this problem before?", or "Can I reach you in… Read More

28 Feb

True Courage: Coming to Therapy

I often say to my patients, particularly to those who feel embarrassed seeking help, "Only the strong people come to therapy." And I mean that. These people are brave enough to look at themselves and their roles in relationships. This kind of introspection, coupled with… Read More